Category: How To Choose The Right Photographer

2/8/2016 0 Comments

sensational ms b

We are so blessed to have the most amazing ladies visit our studio, and Ms B is one of those, who we just adore! She visited us, as she wanted a sensual and beautiful gift to give her fiancé on their wedding day.

On the day of her shoot, as Ms B sipped on a glass of pink champagne, Monique did her stunning makeup and hair. While we chatted about ideas for her shoot and different poses. Once Monique had finished her magic and transformed Ms B into the sex goddess, she is, we unpacked all her fabulous outfits. We loved all the goodies especially the little black body suit... which is always a great outfit for a boudoir shoot! As Ms B's excitement mounted in the studio, we just knew it was going to be a fun and sexy shoot! And, we weren't wrong about that!

After meeting and spending time with this beautiful lady, we were surprised that she didn't feel comfortable in her own skin. We are sure you will agree, she's absolutely gorgeous & sexy! And, she had an incredible day at our studio, where we fell in love with her, as she is just so beautiful in every way. The best way to explain her experience is to use the words she sent us after her shoot:

"I can't thank you enough for a truly wonderful experience. Not only did you make me feel incredibly comfortable prancing around pretty starkers, but you also made me feel so much more at ease in my own skin, which is an incredible feat!
After spending the day with you, my only wish is that all women, at some stage in their life have at least one opportunity to have this sort of experience, as it is completely eye opening!"

Here is a peek at the amazing, beautiful and sexy Ms B's boudoir shoot:

Ms B - Boudoir Shoot - Makeup by Monique

Ms B says her boudoir shoot changed her life and the way she sees herself... Are you ready to change the way you feel about yourself?

Love
the femme fatale girls
xxx

0 Comments

9/6/2015 1 Comment

shattering the misconceptions about boudoir ...

When we say that we are photographers, many people think, about wedding or family photography, and think WOW thats cool! However, when we explain that we are boudoir photographers, generally there are a few different reactions that we get. Starting with ..."whats that?" to "I so want to do that" or the most common, a shocked and awkward silence.

On a daily basis, we as women are bombarded with magazine articles, adverts and TV shows showing us the fashion industry's perception of what a beautiful, desirable and sexy woman should look like. What about all the normal women out there? The daughters, moms, business women, athletes and brides ...don't they deserve to feel sexy and glamorous too?

Clearly, women feel they do deserve to feel this way. That is probably why boudoir photography is one of the fastest growing genre's of photography at the moment.

Having said that , it is still rather misunderstood, and ladies are a bit wary to do a boudoir shoot at first. But, when they do, they describe it as life changing ...like they can finally accept themselves for who they are. Many see themselves in a whole new way, and finally realise how beautiful they are.

We recently read a stunning blog by one of our favourite NYC boudoir photographers, Cate Scaglione and we decided to share her message on shattering 20 misconceptions about boudoir photography.

Photographed by Femme Fatale Boudoir

"I am not a model." Great. Because actually, 99.9% of our paying clients aren’t models either. A “model” is someone who is paid to be photographed for a living. No, we much prefer you pay us instead.
"I don’t look like a model." Well, most models don't look like models. Have you ever seen a “before” picture of many top models? Often times, they're not the same stunning people you see in magazines. Hair, makeup and Photoshop are typically involved in creating that polished editorial look. You have the option to choose to do the same, and you too can look like a model. Or, go with a more natural look.
"I have no idea how to pose in pictures." Haha, well... neither do we actually. But if we have a an experienced beauty photographer trained to pose us and give us great direction, we would look fantastic in photos. Luckily we are the ladies that can do that for you.
"I am too overweight to do a boudoir session." Too overweight? …compared to what standard? You’d be surprised to know many well trained boudoir photographers LOVE sessions with curvier women. In fact, many of us prefer it. Why? We know how to light, pose and dress you so you can celebrate those curves and not condemn them. We like to shatter your negative myths and help you create new, positive ones.
"I am too shy for this. I don’t see myself as sexy." This is an intimate portrait session. By definition it’s about intimacy, privacy and solitude. Our job is to make you comfortable so you feel great in your own skin, and to draw you out to the person you know you are within. It’s YOUR version of sexy, not anyone else’s. And, when we do our job right, you will absolutely see yourself as sexy.
"First I need to lose these last 10 pounds." No, you don't. Because you probably won't. Celebrate who you are RIGHT NOW. You can do a session today then again and again. It’s actually great fun to see that progress. That is the beauty of milestones… You can celebrate your life every time you decide to.
"I’m too old to do a boudoir session." Are you too old to feel special? Appreciated?Beautiful? YOU get to choose to embrace who you are throughout life’s many beautiful stages. YOU get to choose how you’re styled in a way that makes sense to you. Sure, you may not be that same girl as you were in your early 20s. Now you're even better...you're a woman. Today's woman is better than yesterday's woman. Let’s go now.
"I’ll have to wear sexy lingerie for the session." There are no rules that say a boudoir session is about lingerie. It’s about creating your intimate definition of beauty in any way you like. That can be in a sweater… in a negligee…in a ball gown. It’s about intimacy with your sense of self… not your wardrobe.
"My pictures will end up on the Internet." No. Client privacy is the number one priority for any reputable boudoir photographer. To us, your intimacy is a highly protected entity that we go to great lengths to secure, and share only with your written permission. We love and respect all clients, whether they choose to publish their images or not. We are guardians of your privacy.
"I can shop around to get great deal for boudoir photography." A woman’s private moments should never feel like “bargains”. The blatant truth here is, you’ll get what you pay for. A boudoir session is a life-changing experience, which typically includes a moderate investment. A professional photographer's trade is very expensive to run; Therefore a highly skilled, reputable boudoir photographer is almost never “cheap” and does not "deep discount". A boudoir photographer who knows their own worth also know what a great client is worth to us. We’ll go to the furthest lengths to earn every penny, with gratitude and a pursuit of excellence.

Photographed by Femme Fatale Boudoir

"It’s arrogant to hang pictures of myself around the house." Really? Why? Is it arrogant to look in the mirror? To keep a journal? To meditate? Your portraits are no different. They are just an introspective symbol of your feminine self. Our job is to help you love that Woman on the wall as much as any other work of art that hangs in your home. What’s selfish about that?
"My friends and family would not approve of me doing this." Well, that’s fine, because you’re not doing it for them. You’re doing it for YOU. You don’t need anyone else’s approval but your own.
"I’m too scared to do this alone. I think I need moral support!" That’s perfectly fine. While we prefer to keep sessions confined to one of our photographers, our client and one of our hair/makeup artists only, we do allow friends to book sessions together. They often find that it’s a blast (and want to come back alone again!). We will warn you though, we do laugh a little too much.
"I’ll be a nervous wreck the whole time." No, you'll be nervous for 8.5 minutes and that's all. Because if you are nervous after the first 8.5 minutes of your session, we are doing an awful job. Once we get started, we help melt away the tension and you feel your groove. We find that it literally only takes 8.5 minutes, without fail before SHE makes her grand appearance.
"I’m not photogenic." Well, if we haven’t photographed you before, you are not unphotogenic to US. This is not bragging… this is our JOB. Our single task is to help you look and feel the most beautiful you’ve ever felt. Invariably, clients often cry in disbelief when they see their images, when they see a beautiful woman staring right back at them.
"I’ll do it because my (husband/boyfriend/partner) will like it." Your (husband/boyfriend/partner) liking the byproduct of our session is surely a bonus. However, this experience is for you and you alone. This is a celebration to reacquaint with your feminine self, in whatever style you choose for it to be. You are more than a book, a framed picture or an album. As a woman, you are a work of art. You deserve to feel that way.
"Oh my goodness, my photographer is going to see me naked." Yes, while some clients choose to be in a state of undress, that does not have to be the case. You can wear as much as you want or as little as you want. It’s not about your wardrobe but a depiction of your intimacy. Besides, you'd be shocked to know that we so busy adjusting the lighting, composing the shot, working my camera, and posing you, that your state of nudity is virtually the last thing we notice. An experienced boudoir photographer is like your doctor. We have seen it all and we don’t notice it.
"My photographer is going to think my idea is crazy, but…" As artists, we are idea people. We love to hear ideas and to fulfill your wishes. And, if we cannot accommodate them, we can refer you to another photographer who may be able to. Your ideas about beauty and intimacy are yours and not up for our judgment.
"My (husband/boyfriend/partner) will not like this idea." If your significant other does not appreciate the opportunity for you to feel special, confident and beautiful, that is their unfortunate choice. But you do not have to choose the same fate for yourself. You are your own person, with your own emotional needs. We respect the nature of your relationship but YOU as our client are our only priority and my person of concern.
"This is a once in a lifetime experience." Yes and no. You can do this once for your bucket list; Or, you can do it year after year, in as many styles or variations as your little ritualistic self would like. It will feel like a once in a lifetime experience every time, that I promise you!

Now there is no excuse! When you are ready to feel as sexy as you are ... let us know!
Love
the femme fatale girls
xxx

1 Comment

Femme Fatale

Home
About the Team
Our Studios
Testimonials
FAQ
Contact Us
Our Blog

Your Boudoir Shoot

The Boudoir Experience
Boudoir Packages
Styling and Makeup
What to Bring?
How to prepare for your shoot

Your Glamour Shoot

The Glamour Experience
Glamour Packages
Styling and Makeup
What to Bring?
How to prepare for your shoot

Galleries

Boudoir Gallery
Bridal Boudoir Gallery
Glamour Gallery
Videos
Chantal D Photo
Shelley B Photo

Social Media

This website and its content are copyright of Femme Fatale Boudoir Photography
No children under the age of 18 will be photographed without a parent or family member present. All images are shared with permission from our clients
©2021 femmefataleboudoir.co.za - All Rights Reserved.

YOUR CART

.